What does this mean??

my boyfriend of 6 yrs was influenced by his family to dump me for my controlling ways.they never liked me, they have broken us up in the past, but now he returns my calls says he will meet me but never does.one minute he is happy, next angry at me.calling me 'retard' 'bunny boiler' trms i think they have used for me.Thing is he hasn't went out or left the house in 5 weeks since we split.why is this???